Q&A: What is the best way to ask someone to be your girlfriend/boyfriend?

These Anonymous Questions were submitted by teens like you, and answered by KBFPC’s teen Peer Educators and trained adult staff.

Q: What is the best way to ask someone to be your girlfriend/boyfriend?

A: Good question! It can be scary to tell someone you like them or ask someone if they want to start a romantic relationship with you. You can ask someone to be your partner any way you like, as long as you are being safe, clear, and direct with one another. If they say yes, congratulations! Make sure to talk about what that label means to each of you. But if they say no, this is important, respect their decision. Do not try to change their mind if it is not what they want. It may hurt for a while, but you should never ever pressure someone into being in a relationship they will not be happy in. It won’t be healthy for anyone!